"This article is about the pros and cons of
using sex toys in a relationship."
If you've been
in a committed relationship for some time, you might find yourself feeling the
urge to spice things up in the bedroom every now and again. Sure, there’s a
reason why the missionary position is a classic, and you’re lucky if you have a
partner who knows their way around the sheets, but there are times when you
need that little extra spark to get your juices flowing.
Using erotic toys in
a relationship can be a double-edged sword; you can get a lot of good
results, but you should also be ready to get a few negative ones as well.
Assuming that it would be the first time that you and your partner are going to
use sex toys in bed, here are some of the pros and cons that you should keep in
mind.
First, the pros.
Of course, the most distinct advantage would be that you and your partner would
be able to provide sexual stimulation for each other in ways that you have
never tried before. If you choose a more “daring” kind of erotic toy, then you
and your partner would be able to explore your sexual side even more fully. For
example, if you chose rabbit dildo instead of a regular one, you would be able
to experience penile, vaginal, and anal pleasuring with your partner.
The second advantage is that you and your partner would become more open and
honest about your sexual inclinations. Buying a sex toy with your partner,
especially if you do it in person, can be an exciting and fulfilling experience
because you will get to know your partner more intimately when it comes to
their preferences during sex. It’s also very educational as well! Lastly, using
a sex toy during sex allows you and your partner to get creative. If you buy a
sexy leather getup, or perhaps some mild S&M paraphernalia, you would be
able to perform some sexual role play in bed.
On the other
hand, there are some disadvantages to using sex toys as well. The most con
would be if your partner is not comfortable with using sex toys. If you choose
to persist in trying to persuade your partner, you might only succeed in
driving a wedge between the two of you. Another con in using erotic toys is that you need
to be mindful of the condition of the sex toy every time you or your partner
use it. If you do not wash your sex toys regularly after using them, they
become a breeding ground for bacteria, and might result in an infection if you
use them without cleaning them. There are people who also find that they have
an allergy to latex or silicon (which are what sex toys are usually made out
of), and if you are one of these people, using a sex toy would mean that you or
your partner would need to use a condom placed over the sex toy.
Using an erotic
toy as a sex aid can be a very fun and rewarding experience if you and your
partner are both willing and open to the idea. If you do use a sex toy, make
sure that your partner accepts using the toy, and that both of you know how to
use the toy properly so that you get the most enjoyable and safe experience out
of it. Visit www.erotictoytown.com to see a wide selection of sex toys, so that
you can choose which sex toy you think would be the best for you.
