How lesbians in a relationship can benefit from using a strap-on
Despite being naturally “phallus-challenged”, most lesbian couples have no problems have a healthy and exciting sex life. However, just like any other couple, a lot of lesbian couples eventually reach a point in their sexual relationship where the once explosive heat dies down to a simmer. Maybe it’s just that stage where sex takes a backseat to other priorities in life, or maybe the people in the relationship have reached a point where their sex has become a little too predictable and comfortable. Maybe the couple needs to bring in a strap-on sex toy into their sex life.
When one thinks about it, the strap-on would be a great choice of sex toy for lesbian couples. A strap-on is basically a harness worn around the legs or the thigh which allows the user to wear a dildo during sex. The strap-on also frees up the hands of the user, which can be a great change of pace for many lesbian couples who are used to using their hands to stimulate their partner.
Using a strap-on during sex allows the couple to experience new sex positions as well as new places to do it in, without having to resort to other means such cheating on each other to bring back some zing into their sex life. By using a strap-on, lesbian couples can simulate the elements of having heterosexual sex, without actually bringing a man into their bedroom.
EroticToyTown also offers panty strap-ons, for those who are not comfortable using traditional harness strap-ons. For larger couples, traditional harnesses could be uncomfortable because the cushion can grind against the pubic bone, and the harnesses straps can chafe against the inside of the thighs. If you are encountering this problem, you can solve it by using a panty harness. Panty harnesses are shaped like the women’s underwear, with a hole for putting the dildo through.
Using a strap-on can actually be a great experience for both you and your partner from the get-go. You can take your partner with you when you choose your strap-on, and ask their opinion regarding the material of the harness, the material and size of the dildo, as well as any additional features that you may want in your dildo. By including your partner in the process of choosing your sex toy, you build a deeper relationship of trust and intimacy between you and your partner.